Nice or Tough: Which Approach Engages Employees Most?; Harvard Business Review, 9/11/13

Jack Zenger and Joseph Folkman, Harvard Business Review; Nice or Tough: Which Approach Engages Employees Most? : "Clearly, we were asking the wrong question, when we set out to determine which approach was best. Leaders need to think in terms of “and” not “or.” Leaders with highly engaged employees know how to demand a great deal from employees, but are also seen as considerate, trusting, collaborative, and great developers of people. In our view, the lesson then is that those of you who consider yourself to be drivers should not be afraid to be the “nice guy.” And all of you aspiring nice guys should not view that as incompatable with setting demanding goals. The two approaches are like the oars of a boat. Both need to be used with equal force to maximize the engagement of direct reports."