What a Leader Looks Like; Huffington Post, 7/30/15

Fidji Simo, Huffington Post,; What a Leader Looks Like:

"I confided to one of my coworkers that I was worried about people keeping this "weak" image of me in mind even after I returned to full health after seeing me so many times on VC calls lying in bed. I told him how I would try to hide my emergency trips to the hospital, so people didn't think I was unreliable. But to my surprise, he told me that most people in the office were impressed by how strong they thought I was throughout all this  --  both for continuing to care about my team and their efforts, and for my outlook and positivity. It was the last sentiment I would have imagined.

Although I wouldn't wish this experience on anyone, I am grateful for what it's teaching me about myself. While I would still much rather be on my high heels, and in my familiar armor, I've come to appreciate that vulnerability doesn't have to be a weakness. While I focused on my external image of power, I realize now that I wasn't focused enough on my inner strength. An inner strength that, now that I am aware of it, will help me lead in many different ways through life's many different messy situations. An inner strength that is not measured by outward poise, or my appearance. I look forward to the day that can I wear my heels and my make up again, but only because I truly love them, and no longer because I think I need them in order to feel powerful. Leadership is not an image, it's a quality. I hope one day to teach my daughter that lesson."