Never Lie About Who You Really Are; Harvard Business Review, 12/18/12

Dan Pallotta, Harvard Business Review; Never Lie About Who You Really Are: "To stand up for your truth is to be a leader...How can you develop this "coming out" muscle yourself? First, know what you're coming out about. Identify your truths. Write a personal values manifesto. You can't know if your values are being violated if you're ambiguous about what they are. Second, learn to develop a sixth sense for when your line is being crossed. It may be a gut feeling. A nervous laugh. A habit of rationalizing. Not an hour ago a delivery company called and asked if anyone would be home this afternoon to accept a package. I said, "Yes, my other half, with three sick kids." "That must be fun for her," the guy said. That tiny voice in my head rationalized, "You're about to hang up, let it go." The moment I heard myself say that, a trigger went off and I came out to him with a simple, "She's a he." Rationalization is a red flag for me. Let it be one for you."

[Podcast] Can Introverts Lead?; Harvard Business Review, 11/12/10

[Podcast] Francesca Gino, Harvard Business Review; Can Introverts Lead?:

"Francesca Gino, associate professor at Harvard Business School, explains how quiet bosses with proactive teams can be highly successful. She is the coauthor of the upcoming HBR article "The Hidden Advantages of Quiet Bosses."

http://blogs.hbr.org/video/2010/11/can-introverts-lead.html